Living in such a small apartment with 3 other people -- even people who are relatively self-supporting -- just leaves so little psychic space for anything else.
I dream of an office for myself; a small studio for photography and video; a sunroom of some kind; I dream of large bathrooms, I dream of high ceilings.
It's not what I get, but maybe someday.
Until then, I just sometimes sit back and just enjoy the quiet times. Like now.