Now, many of you may not understand exactly what I mean by "The Commune". Although I have mentioned my living situation before, it has mostly been in passing. So, this is one of the few full explanations of why the commune is The Commune.
I live in a 1.5 Bedroom duplex with 3 adults, two children, two cats, and two kittens. There are a total of about 4 rooms, plus 1.5 baths. Needless to say, the place is a bit small. In this place we have approximately 5-6 computers at any given time: two Linux desktops, one Mac Powerbook, an HP Windows PC, and an IBM Windows PC. There is a TV, although none of us watch it.
This, in and of itself, doesn't quite make the place a commune, although the size of the place does tend to lead to a rather communal living experience. However, what really does it is the way the three adults interact. Kristan and I have been friends, or at least compatriots, since I began using LiveJournal oh-so-many years ago. Jess and Kristan met last year, while she was still dating Roy and living in some state way down south. (States outside New England are just "Out there": separating them becomes difficult.) This summer, starting in May, I moved in with Jess. About a month later, Kristan had broken up with her boyfriend and came to stay with us for the weekend. She's still here.
We share tasks in this house: which means, in many cases, that we all do equal amounts of slacking, and nothing gets done. We all bitch about the fact that no one does the dishes, and then eventually, after the mold starts talking (or smelling, whichever comes first) someone will do them. We share a lot of responsibility for the kids: Kristan will watch them while Jess drops over to wedu to pick me up, while I will get them up in the morning, and Jess will usually put them to bed at night. We hang out together and discuss things happening on IRC channels that we share: in fact, we have our own IRC channel, for house-specific discussions (is Alicia dressed yet? Who is going to clean up the cat box this time?). We'll watch movies together. We hang out together.
The Commune is an interesting place. We attract attention, and everyone who stops by comes away talking about how wonderful life in The Commune is. I can't disagree with this in the slightest. If there's one thing that the commune is, it's love.
|The Commune is love|
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